Wear what I want…because it is precisely what I want.
Not a good look for a believer.
IOU usually means a debt -> Christ paid mine!
…my choices should reflect that…even the insignificant ones such as clothing.
What am I seeking to communicate with my style?
Whatever it is…it should glorify God.
Am I seeking to lure with externals? I don’t think so – but it seems inescapable to a degree if that is all others look at…but, now that I think on it, that could be a telling sign of a person to dispense with immediately! Helps me to think through these things!
And as my girl T said, the physical is gonna change. Or as my fave says, what you do to get, you must do to keep.
Me, Going Forward
I still have absolutely NO misgivings about implications of males being visual AND that I find no flaw with how I dress [no blatant flesh-peddling is done by me]…I can have a bit more of a care.
I know my figure.
I also tire of the response to it. They don’t see me. Not really.
So I’ll amend the ‘me cubed and I cubed‘ to be -> respectfully me. If extra layers are needed for modesty, I can do that…for my brothers in Christ.
Scarves, massive space consuming statement necklaces, toppers, etc. Still stylish – just a bit more covered up.
Build inner beauty…cultivate useful skills…be kind to others and lead with a modest example!